How to Listen and Understand. Make relationships better.

And btw if you have built that integrity, that maturity, that character, this skill of emphatic listening will come to you naturally. You don’t have to find tips and tricks on Google on how to listen to people’s problems and what not.

“You don’t understand. She has a different perception.”

“The mind is the strongest muscle in your body. If you aren’t growing it your are losing your power” — Lewis Howes

“If you do what everyone else is doing, you shouldn’t be surprised to get the results everyone else is getting.” — Unknown

They judge me without teaching me.

Before the day we graduate:

“Don’t worry beta, son, you are still young. You don’t need to earn. I am here. You just focus on your studies.”

After the day we graduate:

“Go out. Get a job. You are an adult now. Be responsible. Earn money. How long are you going to live on your father’s pieces?”

I want to be The Man of the House.

Tell me you don’t want that?

Tell me you don’t want to feel important?

Tell me you want to live a life just for the sake of existence?

Tell me you want to die a miserable pig?

Tell me you don’t want to make your family proud?

Don’t settle for anything less than great.

MyStory:

Today I made a move. I made up my mind.
1) I thought what is the worst that can happen? They will say No. They will slap me. They will laugh at me. I am going to leave heart-broken and embarrassed.
2) I accepted and acknowledged that yes it will and has happened to remove the fear from my mind and heart.
3) I made my move with the consequences and their mitigations in my mind to be as confident and subtle as possible.

How you spend years from 18–22 — define you.

Today I met Jasmine. She is a fresher in my department. What a beautiful and young lady. As far as I can guess she must be 18 or 19. I had a talk with her for a few minutes and then we parted ways. But for the time we talked and listened to each other, I got to know that she is a good listener. A gorgeous face with a kind heart. And, she was wearing glasses (😍).